Thursday, October 18, 2012

A CHANGE PLEASE

Being given a voice is all I have ever wanted. To be heard by the people that 'can make the changes happen.' Being understood why people like me have had to live the way we have ...in order to survive. Sentencing has to be over viewed on each individual case of said people involved. The Laws most certainly have to be changed...and NOW ! ...not tomorrow .... because tomorrow isn't promised. Detterance is the main key! How crime and attitudes towards other human beings is portrayed on the media in games in videos in the music industry, encourages youth to follow suit. We need to Educate from a very young age the rights and wrongs of simple plain living...what is acceptable and what isn't. The justice system must stand strong and firm and stick by the sentencing as set at trials in court. Perpertrators should serve their full sentence..'even if they do behave in prison ' as to me that's saying if you be good in here we will let you out early...so obviously they play the game ...until they are released and then committ crimes again. It has been quoted and noted and filmed on tv that prisons are 'cushy' the last programme I watched an inmate say 'look what i got man. When I get out I am doing it again to get back here' as he spoke he waved his arms about showing and gloating what he had in his large 'cell'. Branded trainers,special food in cupboards, free gym, free food free bed he went on and on. Now where this is wrong is ....victims are left to run with children quite often... to refuges that are run down on low money. We as victims suffer and go without, while the perpertrators rub in our noses what they get ...for being bad. Now common sense tells me this is all wrong. SO WHY on earth has it got to this stage? oh yeah HUMAN RIGHTS ! Now in 2003 the human rights act was changed ...it appears that now the perpertrators abuse this and use it for their advantage. Where I ask do our human rights come into play ?

8 comments:

Jill said...

I have just found this,have read through a bit and it really touches a nerve with me. I have suffered at the hands of my ex partner, emotional torture for years and it still goes on now via our children:-( No one listens, feels like no one in authority cares. Things most definately have to change.

Anonymous said...

I have just found out your story and i think what you and your family suffered through is disgusting, i agree prison is a holiday camp and david cameron needs to sort it out prison is because they have done wrong yet are being rewarded with playstations, tv, gyms, snooker tables given free education the only thing they should be learning is how to be a decent human being!!..i also was the victim of domestic abuse for 6years and even though we're not together anymore he still finds ways to get to me we have a 2year old son together and i refuse to let my son witness any think else anymore..i'm now at college hoping to progress on to university to study a social work degree so i can help other woman and children of domestic abuse and hopefully give us all a voice !!x

michieb said...

I have just read some of your story. I suffered at the hands of an ex partner and still to this day live with the fear of seeing him. Although I am in a happy secure relationship with two children. After I got away and reported him, he went after his ex partner and slashed her face in front of their daughter all he got was 12 months. There is no justice for the victims. All we can do is keep fighting for things to change.

Anonymous said...

Wow I heard your story from Xfactor and wondered what actually happened. I could hardly read all the details from the news website, it was extrememly tough to take in what u must have been through. It makes me sick that someone can do this to another human being. I don't understand how the punishment given was so soft. If I was to get caught dealing drugs I would have a longer time in prison.
You are a really strong person for getting through what u have gone through and still going through. Wish you all the best in the future for you and your son.

Anonymous said...

first i would like to say how brave you all are and really admire that you got the strength to get out n get help..i am in an abusive relationship and have been for 14yrs,its mentally and physically draining,i feel that the mental abuse is far worse than the physical as scares n bruises heal were mentaly its all in your mind.i am lucky as i have the most amazing mum and shes there for me and as she says to me,i will wake up 1 day,hopefully soon..loads of love to you and your family x

Anonymous said...

I have read your blog and the comments made by other ladies in abusive relationships. I think you are the bravest people in society, i hope one day you will all be free of these cowardly objects, they are not fit to be called men. I agree that the criminal justice system is totally wrong. I do really hope that one of you do get to speak to Cameron, but something tells me he would make all the right noises but nothing will change. I wish you all good luck, I hope one day you will all be free of these criminals.

Anonymous said...

THE SPIRIT IS NEVER BROKEN

Anonymous said...

My strength, love and prayers goes out to all of you... I have never been through a living nightmare awake.

I want to hug and kiss away the pain then cry it out...but I know that will not take away the years of scares.
I want to jump into that nightmare to rub the predators out with a big fat rubber then throw away the book...but I know they will reinvent themselves in a horror film.
I want to change the law; to amend human rights to inmates under the umbrella of sadistic; to wakeup, wash, eat, work the grounds, books and sleep...but I know our human rights is a law against itself and this country is its own worst enemy!.

Hold your head as high as it will go, lift your shoulders as far back as they will go, look in the mirror smile and kiss yourselves for being a survivor and a beautiful person then tell yourself (I love you so much) and begin the rebuilding process.

Gods work will be seen.x